While laying in the bath tub with a cocktail and the December issue of Harper's Bazaar, I came across an extremely interesting article by fellow blogger, Leandra Medine. Leandra writes Man Repeller, a fashion blog focused on fashion trends that women love and men hate. She uses leopard print and harlem pants as examples. In a nut shell, her point is that sometimes, women wear certain things for sake of fashion, but those fashions sometimes turn men off. So the choice must be made: dress like the runway, or land a man?
I found the question very interesting, as I dated a man who did not always love my fashion choices, (in fact he down right hated the textured tights from last fall), but I always said, "Well, I like them. They are fashionable." So where do you draw the line? It also made me consider the fact that some looks worn on the runway are not meant to be worn on the streets. Take for example the Marc Jacobs Spring 2011 collection. These are the same pictures Harper's published with the article:

The picture to the left is fabulous, and I appreciate it as art, but few women could pull off the over sized flowers in very few places. I love everything about the look, the colors, the inspiration, and especially the over sized flowers, but you would be hard pressed to find a straight man that would call it sexy. The look on the right, however, is more provocative, easier to wear, and still beautiful. It is not my favorite look from the collection, but the comparison is drastic. My point is, certain pieces from the runway are for inspiration and to translate the direction the designer was going. So the real question is: Are you wearing something as a slave to fashion or because it is actually wearable fashion?
A happy balance can be met in both cases. You should wear what you love and be who you are. Not all men will understand, or enjoy, it, but the right one will. Consider though, everyone wants to be thought of as sexy, so perhaps leave the Alexander McQueen at home for the first date, and then wear it later when you feel comfortable explaining all the feathers. As for going over the top with fashion, leave it to Lady Gaga. I am all for show pieces, but translate them to everyday wear. After all, they are only supposed to be for inspiration.
PS: This is what I wore today:
Dress: bebe
Tights: The Gap
Boots: Nine West